Hello people😊
Today I'm going to share you all about the lowest point in my life. It was duing the mid 12th. This was the time when I had completely lost hope and my marks were the worst of all the time both 11th and 12th combined.
As stated before, for me Organic Chemistry was a language of Gods. .
(This was my reaction to all the questions of Organic Chemistry)
So one fine day my friend and I were sitting in a staff room and I confessed him that I was feeling low mainly because I wasn't scoring good marks lately. Besides my teachers were scolding me a lot for not scoring well and so I started to skip many papers. But honestly I feel this was the worst thing I ever did. I advice you not to skip tests or papers even if you barely score.
Now we both were figuring out the possible causes for my condition and after lots of brainstorming, I took a deep breath and thought more over it. I realized the root cause of my low feeling was EXPECTATIONS. Now these expectations could solely be mine or of others included.
Whenever you work under pressure of expectations, the power of rational decision making is lost. This is what happened with me too. Everyone had expectations from me whether they were my parents, my teachers, my friends, my relatives, or even myself. So under this pressure I just kept reading but couldn't concentrate. Yeah this absolutely means I just kept reading but didn't knew what.
To overcome this phase, I assumed I was the worst student (take it in a posiitve way) that means I was the worst scorer of my class. So if I practice just one topic properly, I'll rise from the current level. Hence I defocused myself from the syllabus of next test and instead focused on previous topics which were the key to further chapters i.e., I started all over again. (I already shared the tricks and tips in previous blog). Now this was already impacting my ongoing papers since I didn't studied the given syllabus. And teachers were scolding me even more. This went so far that people actually lost their expectations from me but I knew what I was doing. I believed more in myself and my struggle.
Gradually, I builded up confidence in the topics which I would have never touched otherwise. When everyone else had lost their confidence in me, I was the one with the highest level of confidence inside. I knew I was slow, but I was consistent. And when full syllabus tests started I also started to score really well compared to my past performances. Like before I was scoring hardly 100/300 but now I was able to manage a decent score of 200-240 per test.
The only advice I want to give through this incident is not to let your test syllabus decide and bound you to what to study and what not. Clear your basics first. Strenghten your foundation. And if you are consistent and holds a strong faith no one can stop you from achieveing anything in your life.
"Be Focused On Fundamentals & Marks will be yours"
~ Tarun Goyal
Yeah it's my own quote😅 but it works well.
BEST OF LUCK GUYS!!!...
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Bhaiya I m 2022 aspirant I had wasted 12th and joined dropper batch but in that batch they are going too fast and it's makes too much pressure on me and it's about 5 hrs only online class . This causes early sleep in the evening 7-8pm . What should I do I m working hard but distractions are overcoming my confidence and faith . If I studied 3 hrs before 12 noon . I m confident I had done something good but after that I started wasting time watching pornography and strategy videos ,pubg videos .please bhaiya I need ur help. I m that kind of person who can't buy anything right now. My father used to say me u don't deserve to be my son and my mother supports me but when she sees I m wasting time she looses hopes day by day. She had left everything for my studies . She don't even buy a lipstick for her so that I can buy copy or pen even my father don't give her money . My mother has sold her wedding jewelleries for my studies even after I m not studying . Bhaiya can u help me I m on that point if I workhard I will get king life . My mother has still hope even after I am not studying from 9th class . My father is most demotivating person for me . He is like if I fail he would be happy . Bhaiya I want guidance from u (IITian) whenever I feel demotivating u can help me out from that . If u think me ur young brother u will message me on my name 9315126031 . I will wait for ur reply.
ReplyDeleteSee dear ye to sabse phele smjh lo ki dropper batch m hmesha yahi hota h even mere teachers bolte they ki dropper batch main hmesha syllabus complete krnna hota h prof ko so this won't be much helpful. But yes anyhow you need to clear out your doubts from teachers.
Deleteprobably your classes are form 8 am - 2 pm with 1hr. of break to tum ek kaam kr skte ho after 2pm give away your phone to your mother and just sit with books you don't need to study just have to sit with books and you cannot wonder here and there matlab sirf book khol kr ya to pad skte ho ya mat pado jaruri nhi h padna pr books k sath baithna jruri h or sath m tum room m yaha wah bhi nhi dekh skte sirf book ko dekhna h try this for 3hr. continuously daily and jb tum esa kr lo then you can feel ki ha mene aaj kuch productive kiya h
isse hoga ye ki you will start feeling bore and tum dheere dheere book read krna shuru kroge and jab tum read krna shuru kroge tabhi tum aache se JEE kar paoge and set your goal to be JEE Mains kyuki JEE Mains is quite easy as compared to JEE Advanced or NIT bhi kaafi aacha hota h. And also be focused on NCERT mene jo tricks and tips wale blog m books likhe h unko mat krna bas NCERT kr lena JEE Mains bhaut aache se kr loge
And you sleep at 7pm so you should be up by 3-4 am. As You have only 8hr to sleep and they need to be followed strictly. No less no more. so try to wash your eyes when you feel asleep and go for bed around 10pm and get up by 6pm and don't touch your phone till 8am when class starts.
To remove distractions uninstall pub-g from your phone and also try to socialize yourself with your mother talk to her whenever you feel sad or frustrated. Uninstall any social media you are using apart from the one which you are using for getting info about your classes.
Unsubscribe the channels of strategy and if possible. And the way you said ki tumhare papa ne kaha wo tumhe aapna beta deserve nahi krte to tumhe iss negative energy ko ek positive direction m shape dena h every time you feel ki kuch to h jo m galat kr rah hu then that word of your father should be your motivation.
tumhare pas ek aag h aab bas tumhe uss aag ko ek sahi disha dena h kyuki jabtk suraj ki kirno ko bhi ek jagah focus nhi kiya jata tab tk wo ek kagaz bhi nhi jala skti h or usi dhup ko agr ek disha de di jaye wo loha tk ko pighla skta h
Yaad rkhna jo sona tapta h wahi aakhir m tarasha jata h
dekho mai ye to nhi janta ki tum kitna mehnat krte ho par itna jrur kahunga ki sirf mehnat krne se kaam nhi chalta hmme ye pata hona chahiye ki hum mehnat kis disha m kr rahe h.
Bhaiya I want to complete my 11 th in 6 month that I can practice multiple times .
ReplyDeleteSee dear 11th k start mai sabko kaafi josh rehta h but wo dheere dheere normal hota h
DeleteWese bhi jo 11th hota h ussme kaafi students ko adjust krna hota h baki revision k liye tumhe itna time milega jiska hadd nhi hota for bhi agr tumko krna h
then do one thing jo bhi tumhara coaching h waha se jitna pada rahe h usko pura revise kro and NCERT jrur se follow krna and agr still time bachta h jab tum NCERT, Coaching notes, Practice questions, Examples wo sab kr lo to tum
Chemistry ki NCERT k sath aage bad sakte ho or try krna ki inorganic phele kar lo (11th 12th dono ka) jisse kya hoga tumhe sabse jyada confidence rahega aane wale time m and then go for bonus chapters(Pichle blog mai bataya h konse chapters hai).
Pr ye dhyan rkhna h ki Jyada padne k chakkar mai foundation kamjoor na rahe phele teeno subject m jitna pdaya h uska aacha khasa pakad ho uske baad hi aage jana h
and revision ka tension mt lo revision ka time itna milta h JEE k phele tum sochoge aab kya kru? sab kar liya. agar tum class ka regularly padte ho.
Very nice blog bhaiya aise aur banate raho aap kaafi help milti hai ������������
ReplyDeleteThank you, aap bhi mujhe ese hi support krte raho or aapne dosto ko bhi iss blog k bare m batao,
Deleteor mere traf se Best of luck aapke future k liye